Why do you do what you do?
Sunday Sunday Sunday. Yes, it is Sunday night. Oscars are on and I am here on my pc doing nothing much. I have been reading some of our sites, trying to find out why so many people go to our new sites but don’t buy our services. Why is our business always referral? I think it is because that we work in so many spaces that fear of judgement keeps us from putting our faces on anything out on the web. It feels like we live somewhere where what we think isn’t exactly the same as everyone else. So, we just keep quiet. This evening as I am sitting here I started thinking, why do we do what we do? Then the truth came to me, out of fear. Fear of not being understood, fear of not being heard, and fear of not being successful. The other night I was writing my entry and thought to myself, no one is reading what I am typing so I might as well watch TV. I know this is silly, but I still felt it. I should be doing what I am doing for me and shouldn’t care if anyone else is reading it or not. But I do some of the time!
Then I started thinking why do we care so much whether people like all the things we do together. The answer is simple; fear of judgment and lack of understanding. What would people think if they knew we do so many different things. Would they care? Would they understand? Of course the answers are never in front of us. People that know us never question the place of love we come from. So tonight I leave you with a little note to help you step a little closer to where you need to go and for myself the realization that we need to step further down our own path.
Look to the path that you are on and try not to pay attention to what is in the bushes 